For in hope we have been saved, but hope that is seen is not hope.....

...for who hopes for what he already sees? But if we hope for what we do not see, with perseverance we wait eagerly for it. Romans 8:24-25
While most people start a blog at the beginning of their adoption journey I find myself putting together one at the end. Why? It can be answered by the first question they ask you when you start to put together the blog..."Title for your blog?" That was enough to stop me. Something so personal...what should my blog say? I knew it should express HOPE. Knowing there is hope in every situation, at every place in your life and that hope can never run out. We're adding to our family again: a little girl named Amisha. She will have spent her first three years in an orphanage this coming October 10th. I wonder if she held on to hope... she has a condition called schizencephaly. Her time here on earth will be determined by complications as time passes. For now we will bring her home, love her and hope....

Friday, April 10, 2009

Which is the victor? Parental wisdom or 3 year old spunk...

Our transition to 5 children from 4 was so smooth. Those who know Jonathan (#4) know he is "fully loaded" from the minute he wakes until he falls asleep. He is giving the U of M adoption clinic a lot of funding still. (Ha Ha) So, this time around it was nice not to be challenged at every step.

With that in mind I had to post these pictures of me dear sweet princess that is soooo independent. She does everything, I mean everything her self. All day long. I used to be able to slyly pick out her clothes and lay them out in her room, but no more. The 2nd picture down is her dressed in the outfit she wanted for preschool and I was ummm....distressed so she is sucking her thumb. The top one is her thinking I am warming up to the outfit. (Yes, I messed up and downloaded the pictures wrong to blogger!)

I sometimes have to stop myself and think of which battles I am going to choose with this little special needs tiger who has already three years somewhere I would of despaired in the entire time.

In ending I have to confess I knew I had the ace in the hole because she hadn't eaten lunch and I knew she would cover it in food, no way will she wear a bib, and be upset she was dirty and change once again. So.....sweet mama hid all other clothes and won with my outfit and got to ditch the goggles because they didn't match.

Who says there aren't simple pleasures in winning? Even if it is with a 3 year old....










4 comments:

Kristi W. said...

Ha! Mommy reigns victorious!! :) What a sweet, spunky, beautiful little diva she is. I think Amisha and Daya would get along very well...we'll have to get them together someday. I'm glad your transition has gone so smoothly. I think I need some tips! ;)

Kristi

~Kathie~ said...

Amisha is absolutely precious! I love the goggles! :) Hope you and your family have a blessed Easter!

Kathie

Peter and Nancy said...

We've had a few questionable outfits at our house, too. :o) You definitely had the master plan, though (insert evil mama laughter here!). She is such a doll, and I just love the goggles!
-- Nancy

theheartofachild said...

Oh too cute!!! Fun to see pictures of her "in action"!